jmccolgin

My 36th wedding anniversary is just a few days away, and that has caused me to contemplate some of the things I’ve learned over the course of my marriage. While I can say that my marriage has definitely gotten better over time, I’d be a… Read More »Don’t Fear the Ups & Downs

So… we’re driving down the interstate on a rainy Sunday afternoon. Posted speed limit is typically 70 MPH, occasionally drops to 65. Like many drivers, I try to limit my speed to 9 mph over the posted limit – an infraction that I’ve been told… Read More »My Wife said it was 55… So did the Officer

Talk to any engaged couple about their dreams for marriage. You’ll get a pretty vivid description of life-long love, friendship, passion, joy, and excitement. In their minds they may be in a good place in life right now, but things are only going to get… Read More »Vision Creep in Marriage

I’m always telling people how important it is to get away with just their spouse. The benefits are huge and it is an investment well made in terms of time and money. Recently someone asked me when was the last time I got away with Tara? … Read More »A Great Week Away…

Let’s be honest. When you find yourself in an argument with your spouse, your initial thought is that you are 100% right, and your spouse is 100% wrong. Your goal is to point out the error in their behavior or thinking and convince them to… Read More »Forgiveness is Mutual

John 3:20 says “Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed”. In many instances, spouses have numerous secrets that they keep from one another. There’s just certain things that they want… Read More »Turn the Lights On in Your Marriage

       God designed marriage to be like no other relationship, yet most couples go through life taking their spouse for granted. No matter where your marriage is today, this book will help you take it to the next level. This is the perfect… Read More »Rules of Engagement – Available Now!!